If there was one lesson learned from the great flood, it’s that we are all in the same boat.
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Yesterday, we had a
“mini” reunion – it was Clean-up Day at Golden Mile – Ondoy’s aftermath party. LOL. It was among those that had been flooded during the typhoon last September 26 and two of my friends live there. I used to live there but thanks to divine intervention, I don’t anymore. LOL. It was the house of my
*insert cuss here.LOL * ex-boyfriend who is at the moment in the other end of the world lecturing people on how to be responsible.
*pukes.LOL.
When I learned that the house had been flooded, I said,
“Shit, all my other stuff are there. And most probably they had been affected.” Gawd. I do not know what to expect. But as they have said, expect the unexpected.LOL.
The subdivision looked like its celebrating a fiesta – a laundry fiesta. There were lots of makeshift clothes lines and clothes were all hung to dry. I can’t imagine that this place had been submerged under muddy water up to neckline. That is why people are making up doing laundry - A LOT of laundry because most probably ALL had been wet during the typhoon. Even though it had been a week already, you can see that people have not caught up cleaning and disposing of junk and they have not fully gotten over what has had happened.
But despite the tragedy, we were thankful that we were all okay, safe and alive. We all agreed to help Tina and Vance clean up so that they may, finally be able to move out. It was just a shame that Ondoy caught up with them, making it much more harder.
We all arrived in working clothes ready to be wet and muddy – Jyas, Mark, Tina & Vance plus Vance’s mom and dad. Tina’s brother and Raffy was also there to help. Project Runway. Sexy models cleaning challenge. LOL. A little after we came, Atty. Morales’ relatives also came to help clean-up.
The mud has dried up and that made it a little more difficult to remove. The walls have traces of mud, the house smelled rotten and everything was just plain destroyed by the flooding. The appliances and furniture were ruined. Clothes were all soaked up so Tina had to wash them all.
I had lots of stuff there. I mean, most of my stuff are still in that house, kept in the library until when I am able to get them which I was planning this coming October. But after this, it made me realize a lot of things – that they are all just material things I do not necessarily need. Actually, if it hadn’t been for Tina and Vance, if they hadn’t been living there at the moment, I would have abandoned everything already when the house had been flooded and would never return to that place anymore. I wouldn’t see the point and it will be just a waste of my time anyway. But I guess, God has certain ways on showing you what you should realize and I contemplate that this is one of those moments.
There were a lot of waste and it was regretfully sad to throw away things you have bought and worked for. I actually lost all my books (huhu), my thesis (gosh), my pictures (wah! Baby pics that have no more copies *sob, my grad pic – I’ve paid for this so expensively.grrr ). Actually during the typhoon, when Vance called me up telling me that the water is continuously rising and that he couldn’t save all my things, I said, it’s okay because I was confident enough that I’ve OC-ingly arranged it well. But alas, I had been wrong because apparently nature was more adept than me (hayz). I rummaged through boxes of my things trying to look for specific items I want to take home with me. I’ve given up on my clothes I’ve kept in plastic containers because water still seeped in and it smelled like canal because the water had been there for almost a week already. Although, it can still be recovered through rigorous washing, I opted to give them away rather than exert more effort for it. Besides, those are the clothes I rarely wear anymore so it doesn’t really hold anything for me especially now that I don’t have time to wear casual clothes because I’m in uniform six times a week. LOL. Basically, I’ve given everything up to Tina – I gave it ALL to her – and told her that she can think of it as a
“wedding gift”. LOL. Although, I took smaller stuff that I still want and could take home to my new boarding house.
I was just thankful enough that I was able to get my MOST important stuffs even before this happened - my documents (birth certificates, diplomas, etc.), clothes that I like, my bedsheet collection (which I can still put up if ever I decide to hold a garage sale.LOL), my favorite shoes (my boots!~whew.) I am sad though, I’ve lost my book collection (oh well, I can still buy and I might find them in book sales and thrift shop so no worries).
I have realized that my things are the only ones keeping me attached to that place and now I have completely let go. LOL. I am already okay with how I am living right now, enjoying it and if ever I want to start over, I can always do it if I want to. I can always buy new stuff if ever I plan to get a new place for myself. It came to me that sometimes, in order to move forward, we should just learn to let go because sometimes the weight is keeping us from reaching higher grounds. And I have proven this already.
I am also happy to see my friends again (Jyas, Mark I missed you! Liezl – MIA! Akira and Shiro still alive!) and this is another event that probably has made our friendships a bit tighter and closer. Although, I know this is just a minute part of things that we are still to face and endure, it feels like the good old times (less one.LOL).
This is just part one. The Project Runway Clean-up Party will be continued next Sunday. It’s a shame we did not have any cameras to take pictures yesterday. LOL. Maybe next week. We’ll see.
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mood: back aches from all that washing and scrubbing and laundry.